Let me introduce you to an Adult Education offering that I am going to be teaching starting Sunday, October 23 at 9:30am in the Library. It is entitled “Overcoming Love Busters.”
You may have started out in your relationship thinking you would love each other forever. Our emotions frequently check to see who has been caring for us and who has not. You will spend more time with those persons who make you feel good and avoid being with those who make you feel unhappy. Our emotions encourage us to spend time with and invest in that person. In fact, you may find that person not only attractive but irresistible. Of course those who do not show their caring for you will be the persons we will spend less time with. In fact you may feel repulsed by that person. If that person is you partner you may then conclude that your marriage was the biggest mistake of you life.
In our class you will learn how to avoid those “love busters,” that is habits that cause your partner and you unhappiness. The teaching time together will enable you to overcome these destructive habits and to regain passion in your relationship.
Won’t you join us on October 23 at 9:30am in the Library? And further, bring a friend or two as well. It is a great way to introduce others to North Church and our caring for each other. In fact, bring your partner!
Lew Bigler NYS LMHC and Family Counselor